I caught my husband masturbating :(?

Sharri Scalley: Ok, I'm confused. You are upset about him masturbating (which is completely normal) but NOT upset about what he was watching (children in a beauty contest)?!?!? Is that correct? HELLO WAKE UP!!! Are you seriously that blind? I don't mean to sound harsh but you said he DVR's it. I won't even watch the show because it exploits children. But your husband is masturbating to it, you really don't see the problem? He sounds like a pedophile!!! I hope you were NEVER planning on having children with this guy. ~Good Luck!...Show more

Seema Hosfeld: Wow. You just caught him masturbating to children in beauty contests. I'm so sorry. You might want to ask him to seek professional help, particularly if you guys have or want children in the near future.

Andrew Sinatra: I think the HUGE issue here is NOT that he's mastubating, but that he's mastubating while watching toddlers! This doesn't send red flags in the air? Porn would have been normal guy behavior.! ..toddler and tiaras, NOT normal! I am wondering why you are being so relaxed about him jacking off to toddlers!

Joni Ziak: give him oral before you take off somewhere and come back within an hour, so basically dont give him time to get another hard on

Ginny Trickett: Okay, you just made your husband sound like a huge pedophile. What the hell is he doing jacking off while watching toddlers in tiaras, if I were you I'd rather it been a porn that he was doing it to. Okay he has issues and if you dont see the problem with this that you do too. You need to talk to him because that is disgusting and not healthy

Lissette Semon: just be glad he was pleasuring himself and not pleasuring someone else or they him. Guys want it all the time. We either go find someone to give it to us, wait for you to get home, or take it. How often does he want it and you deny him?Be glad thats all you caught him doing. But Toddlers in Tiaras, unless it isnt as self explanatory as it! sounds that may be a problem.

Derrick Smsith: You have ! to understand that men masturbate always no matter if their married or not

Caterina Yeargan: I would much rather him being busted watching adult porn!!!....HELLO???!!! Your problem is way worse that just masturbation sweetie. He needs help. I hope you don't have young daughters=(

Ulrike Hert: well masturbation is a healthy thing. I find it weird that he was masturbating to Toddlers in Tiaras. It sounds a little perverted to me. But anyways, talk to your husband about it. But let him tell his part. And try not to make to big of a deal about it. i only say that because like i said above, masturbation is a healthy and normal thing. Just be glad that you didn't find some other woman in your bed with him. My husband cheated on me. Now were getting a divorce....Hope i could Help!!!Please answer mine???http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AnO1f......Show more

Dexter Gold: He's going to masturbate no matter how much you protest. It's impractical to t! hink otherwise. The fact that he would masturbate to cute pre-teen children should upset you and give you the reality check that he may be fascinated with sexually experiencing children. To make sure that he never masturbates again involves a very sharp knife or other blunt instrument to destroy his genitals and would commonly be referred to as a felonious crime. The situation and the question should embarass both of you if you aren't the troll most of us think you are....Show more

Spencer Heidtbrink: I wouldn't stress out so much about the act, but what he was watching.

Connie Dickirson: u should be happy for atleast not having him caught with some other woman in ur bedroom. masturbation is normal and i think all men do that,whther married or not.

Lauri Ohl: I prefer backyardigans.

Hugo Pittari: I would of rather have my man watching porn while he masturbates than him watching LITTLE GIRLS!!!!! (PEDAPHILE). if my husband loved a show about little! girls pretending to be grown ups I would be freaked out a lot more tha! n if he was just watching porn, lady you have a problem and I hope you don't have a daighter with that man.

Ronnie Barcus: He has a problem and so do you. Watching children while masturbating is a sure sing of a sick mind.

Sena Highman: Omg! That's worse! That means he was turned on by toddlers!

Lyman Gauld: why are you joking w/ this???? there is so many thing to say but not this lady??? toddler and tiaras!!!!! First I do not believe that you are serious asking this, if so no Wonder why he marry you and not a child!!! HE DID NOT SEE ANY DIFFERENCE if is a joke bad to bad!!!

Jackson Esmiol: I agree with Jared. I would have a problem with the toddlers.

Donte Schoenhals: Ok him masturbating is normal... but to that sickening show is NOT normal... he may be a closet pedophile... but anyone who watches T&T's probably is one anyway...

Hunter Beech: This has got to be a joke of a question. Seriously. That is just disgusting. Masturbating to T! oddlers in Tiaras? Come on, man. Look- 97% of all people masturbate the other 3% have no arms. But toddlers? I had to respond I couldn't help it- no resistance. You got me

Porfirio Gartland: Are you kidding me??I'd be more concerned about him jerking to toddlers than porn...hopefully he was actually doing it because of them...hmmm...which man records toddlers in tiara??Anyway, the problem here is not the masturbation...thats only natural....the problem is the toddlers in tiaras part...

Guy Bonamico: WTF... theres a serious problem here... You dont approve oh him watching porn, but dont seem to be bothered that he's jacking off to toddlers and tiara's. your sick if you dont see this as a problem.And-your his wife, not his mom. he's going to do it regardless. you cant forbid someone to do something. get a dog in that case. and grow up....Show more

Michal Semple: I would be more worried about him masturbating to toddlers in tiaras.

Chadwick Schmelz: Al! l men masturbate. He might stop if you on top of him constantly. Sorta ! weird his choice of show to watch while doing it. You can't ever really make sure it doesn't happen again, it's his body.

Toby Caswell: Porn isn't so good but masterbating is rather normal,it doesn't mean it's cheating. Talk to him about it but I mean he is a guy,and guys like to masterbate.=/

Carlton Lastrapes: every man jacks off for gosh sakes learn to watch him and help him enjoy it more...stop worring so much on jacking off and worry about what he was watching more. for gosh sakes buy him porn and get him away from watching kids...GROW UP!

Angelyn Ducas: It's not the masturbating that disturbs me as much as the fact that he was doing it in front of an episode of Toddlers in Tiaras. THAT my friend, is disgusting!

Isaias Badgley: You should talk to him and ask him if he feels like there is something missing in your relationship. He probably feels awkward about it so approach it in a nice way and not in a mad and demeaning way. Once you don't feel! as angry you should ask him if he feels like something is missing.Maybe you guys just need to spice some things up together. Be a little more open minded about maybe going to go check out an adult store. If you're not ready to do something like that then you should ask him how you can both spice things up in a different way.Communication is key!!Good luck and try not to judge him, he's your husband :)...Show more

Olin Hallin: U can not stop him from doing this. Just be glad he was at home instead of picking up teenagers somewhere.Some men masturbate in their sleep, What he was doing is not a crime. Give him more sex. Watch him closely to see if he has a tendency towards kids. Men are on automatic pilot with sex much more than women as a general rule. If he was embarrassed this is a positive sign. Ask him outright if he needs more sex from U, and see what he says....Show more

Berry Gilmore: I think I would be more worried that my husband was masturbating to a bu! nch of really young kids, than if he was watching porn..its a completly! natural and normal thing to do, just not while watching children.

Jannette Kotz: Oh you people are being silly. He isn't a pedophile! We're MARRIED and have children for God's sake.. how can he be a pedophile? He just really loves that show.

Lahoma Beadell: he is a guy he will do that or would u rather him be all over you wantinig it all the time or for him to find another source of getting off